Tuesday 11 September 2012

THE PERFECT RELATIONSHIP


                           
                             
                 
  ITS NEVER TOO LATE!!!!!
The desire of that “perfect relationship” is universal, we all want our love stories despite of our age and country  to be perfect and unique.. Men and women from all over the world do fall in love once or more in their lifetime and experiences  the problems too related to them. For some, love is a game of lust, and for some love is a gift of a life time, it all depends on perception of an individual’s mind as how he/she welcomes this ubiquitous phenomenon of love.
The moment of time, when we realize that; “he is the man/women I was waiting for “, the world around us changes into a world of ecstasies and if we successfully make the person realize or propose and gets a positive confirmation, then there is no limit of our happiness. The relationship starts with a perfect smile and enthusiasm. The honeymoon period is always the best time a couple experiences in any kind of a relationship for any period of time. The moment this time gets over, is the time when you starts noticing about your partners flaws.
The secret to a “perfect relationship “is not a very difficult or arduous thing to achieve. It’s just the matter of your own desire about how you yourself want your relationship to be.
We all are human beings or perfect social animals and need a place in the society and be well accepted among the people of the same league so when you are in a relation, do not isolate yourself from your other mates and close friends .you can keep your personal problems away from them but never give them a chance to complain, you can introduce your partner to your group and hangout together as well
But in the meanwhile the next problem arises is your partner might start thinking you as infidel because of presence of your x in your group or some close friend. In this case it’s very important that you should be very clear and honest about your past relationships and about your feelings .The more you talk and give time to each other the more, your relationship tends to be on the perfect side. 
Giving space to your beloved is also an important factor ,the more possessive you become ,the distance you create will be more ,your love may be true but it’s your duty to give value to your beloved’s  desires and values. It’s always nice to respect each other’s feelings and desires.
In a couple generally one of them has a tendency to change and behave a little kid dish as seen in generally which is not at all insane but its seems sweet, the other counterpart must also takes this kind of a behavior in a healthy way and lend his/her ears for all the cravings and desires his kid dish counterpart has.
When it comes to being physical with your partner the same rule applies, the most important being the comfort level, if you really want to have a perfect relationship you should make your partner feel comfortable ,talk about your desires and ask him/her their wishes .
The golden rule for a perfect relationship is nothing but having a faith on your partner and a strong trust
If your love is true no matter how far you be your love will knit the gap between you two through the threads of trust.
                                                

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